How to Choose your Adoption Attorney
Although many adoptions go through seamlessly, others hit a glitch or result in full-blown litigation. Before selecting an attorney for your adoption proceedings, educate yourself on the importance of choosing the right attorney.
First and foremost, it’s important that you choose an adoption attorney that has experience in adoption law. And it’s important that you find one that you feel comfortable working with through what is often a highly emotional process.
So, do some research and compile a list of adoption attorneys in your area and start making some phone calls. Remember, while it’s important to choose an adoption attorney as early in the process as possible, it’s equally as important that you not hire the first attorney you meet and instead make an informed decision after doing your homework.
Here are some questions that we recommend you ask each attorney you interview:
- How long have you been practicing adoption law?
- Approximately how many adoptions do you personally handle each year?
- What percentage of your practice is devoted to adoption law?
- What other area(s) of law do you practice?
- How experienced are you in contested adoption litigation?
- What times of day are you available to receive telephone calls, emails or texts?
- If I were to retain the services of your office, would I communicate with you directly or with you through a paralegal or other individual?
- What is your fee for this type of adoption (i.e. private agency, interstate, step-parent, re-adoption, etc.)?
- In what court(s) do you typically practice?
Common pitfalls of selecting counsel include retaining an attorney who:
- Practices in the area of “family law” but does not have significant experience in adoption law
Before hiring an attorney, it is important to ascertain whether adoption is an area of law in which this particular attorney merely has “some” experience, or whether this is an area in which s/he frequently practices. Someone who handles only a couple of adoptions annually may not be as familiar with changes to the law as someone who works primarily in the area of adoption. Also, someone whose professional adoption experience is comprised almost exclusively of step-parent adoptions may not be familiar with the significantly different requirements and expectations of newborn adoptions, which typically require significant legal work and case management prior to the birth of the child.
- Has some experience in adoption law but no experience litigating contested adoptions
It is often significantly less-expensive in the event of contested adoption litigation to select a firm from the outset with vast experience in contested adoption litigation than selecting counsel that does not litigate and then transferring your case to experienced litigation counsel who will later need to invest a significant amount of time to be brought up-to-speed in the matter. Most importantly, experienced adoption counsel can often times avert or short circuit contested litigation.
- Is inaccessible after typical business hours
Asking what time of day your attorney is accessible, as well as whether your attorney provides her/his cell phone number to clients, can help you determine whether this is the right firm for your needs. Adoption practitioners generally are very accessible because they understand that when a baby comes is unpredictable, and a baby can’t be enticed to arrive during business hours. If the attorney with whom you consult is not accessible outside of normal business hours, you could find yourself facing unnecessary delays and enduring unneeded stress or frustration when after-hours issues arise.
- Quotes the lowest fee of the attorneys contacted and thus is retained, despite a lack of experience.
Finally, the age-old saying, “You get what you pay for” rings very true in this arena. Retaining the attorney with the lowest fee quote can actually end up causing more damage to your wallet than a veteran attorney with a higher fee. Although finances are an important aspect of adoption because the Court needs to ensure you can afford to raise and rear the adopted child, it is important to not sacrifice experience for a lower fee. The consequences of that choice can be catastrophic in the adoption arena.
As you can see, it is imperative that you choose an attorney who is not only going to make you a priority and not simply view your case as another paycheck, but who is also familiar with the requirements and expectations of adoption law in the jurisdiction where the case will be filed. Do not be afraid to ask the tough questions to confirm you hire the right attorney to help with your unique situation.
If you are currently considering adoption in Florida or searching around for adoption agencies in Florida, feel free to contact Heart of Adoptions. We are here 24/7, 365 days a year and will always pick up your call at 1-800-GO-ADOPT.